A few months ago we added a section to the site quoting a Stanford researcher, Jamil Zaki. It said, in essence, that cynicism is not clear-sightedness. Since then, two or three people have written to us with something along the lines of: “sure, but being too positive is naive.” This piece is the reply we did not have time to write at the time.
Because there is a misunderstanding buried in there, and it is worth untangling.
Two things we confuse all the time
Scepticism, at its root, means doubting. Checking before believing, refusing to swallow a claim just because it sounds good. It is a method. Cynicism has already made up its mind: people are selfish, good intentions always hide a calculation, generosity does not really exist. That is no longer a method, it is a conclusion — and often one reached in advance, before anybody looked at the facts.
The trouble is that we have mixed the two together to the point of believing that cynicism is an advanced form of wisdom. As if: the more disillusioned you are, the more you have worked out the plot. Zaki has spent a good part of his career dismantling that idea, with data rather than punchlines. His research shows something counter-intuitive: cynical people are no smarter than anyone else. They are just often worse at spotting who is lying and who is not. Cynicism protects you from disappointment, but it damages your judgement along the way.
The scepticism that does you good
So what does it actually look like, a scepticism that does not tip over into cynicism?
“I don't know yet whether this person is reliable, I'm going to watch.” Not “nobody is reliable anyway.”
The distinction is thin, and it changes everything
The first position is still open to being surprised; the second has already shut the door.
It also means accepting something slightly uncomfortable: most people, most of the time, are trying to do the right thing. Not out of saintliness. Just because living together broadly works better that way. The neighbour who takes the bins out for the elderly woman on the third floor, the cashier who hands back your change without double-checking, the man who returns a dropped note rather than pocketing it — none of that makes the headlines, because it is not rare enough to be news. That does not make it invisible. Just quiet.
The cynicism that just hurts
And on the other side, there is what cynicism really costs. Not philosophically — practically.
Someone convinced that “people are rotten” stops reaching out first. They stop trusting by default, which means they also miss the occasions where trust would have paid off. They end up lonelier, not better protected. And the worst part is that it closes in on itself like a feedback loop: the less you trust, the less people show you their better side, which confirms your original theory. Cynicism does not predict reality. It manufactures it, a little, in its own image.
What that changes for us
We did not build Radio Good News by closing our eyes to what is going wrong. We read the news like everybody else. We are perfectly aware that the world has some fairly unlovely angles.
But we chose not to stop there. Not out of blissful optimism — more because ignoring the evidence of cooperation, mutual help and ordinary decency would be just as dishonest as ignoring the bad news. A complete scepticism looks at both columns of the table, not one.
So the next time someone tells you the radio is “too nice” to be honest — it might be the other way round.
It might just be the part of the table they stopped reading.
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